So me and my hubby had a fight this morning.
About the typical things: money, jobs, buying a house, how we talk to each other….
I hate when we fight and love to pretend (when I am la-la land) that we don’t but
I don’t like fighting and I don’t like how I feel afterwards.
I feel unclean and so sorry.
But what I am thankful for is that we are quick to forgive each other. I don’t think the key to a good marriage is to NEVER fight. Because sometimes you are going to disagree and you are going to be irritable and say something that hurts the other person. I believe that is a given. I think the successful marriages are those where the two people are quick to remember their love for one another and forgive each other.
So, somewhere in the middle of our fight this morning, my hubby says “I am so sorry Ali” and I say, “I am so sorry David” and we talk it out like the mature adults (we pretend to be) and move on.